If you have been reading my blog for the past couple of years, then there is absolutely no reason that you should not be getting women by now. Either you aren’t keeping up with the posts, or you aren’t applying the knowledge I’m dropping. Anyhow, here is a condensed 10 step version on how to start getting women (in no particular order):

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Always go for it. Stop thinking about the “what if” scenario. You can always make-up for a screw up later on, but if you never make a move, you’ll never get a second chance. Women want men that show that they have balls. At the very worse, you’ll learn something from the experience.

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Stand up for yourself. Don’t let anyone walk all over you. Learn to speak up. Do what YOU want to do. Talk about what YOU want to talk about. Go where YOU want to go. And most importantly, live the life that YOU want to live. Not the life that your parents want you to live. Not the life that your friends want you to live. And not the life that you think is going to impress women. Keep it real. That’s what women want.

Guys who think negatively about themselves do not get laid. Negativity with ones self goes right along with not being confident. I don’t care if you are the worse looking guy in the world, negative talk about yourself does not benefit you, so there’s no point in even bothering with it. I never worry about things that I have no immediate control over. And no one likes being around a negative person anyway.

How did I build my confidence? By going outside of my boundaries and doing things I wouldn’t normally do. Anytime someone asked me to do something or go somewhere with them, I’d do it just to get outside of my comfort zone. Simply doing things that you aren’t use to doing and are a little nervous about will build your confidence.

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I’m not saying that you have to spend 4 hours a day in the gym, or even go to the gym at all. But what I am saying is that you should at least try taking care of your hygiene, and buying the most expensive clothes/shoes that you can afford. Women like men that look and smell nice, and you’ll only be helping yourself by dressing nicer than all of the other men that are available.

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Host a few parties and get togethers. Start inviting people out with you every time you go somewhere. Join a few groups, clubs, and organizations. Talk to and try to find common ground with everyone that you meet through those clubs and through your friends. Number close them so you can invite them out to one of your events. You will build your access to women simply by building your social circle. It’s much easier to pick up women through your social circle simply because you eliminate the “speed” part of seduction and have rapport through your common group/friends.

Do whatever it takes to differentiate yourself from other men. Eliminate the interview type questions when talking to women. Dress differently than every other guy. Do the exact opposite of every other guy. Learn to express yourself. Show your true personality. It’s OK to not be the most macho guy in the world. It’s OK to be a little emotional. And it’s OK to be a little odd. You will get noticed simply for being different. A one of a kind guy.

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Black guys, stick to the bars where a lot of BGO (Black Guys Only) girls hang out. Country boys, stick to the country bars. Frat boys, stick to the frat bars. Older men, stick to the slower paced suburban bars. Women go to those places for a reason: they are interested in the men that are a product of that culture. It just makes things a lot easier for you.

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You see a girl by herself? Talk to her. You see women that look bored? Talk to them. A girl giving you eye contact? Talk to her. Do it before it’s too late and don’t wait around for the perfect moment, because it isn’t going to happen. Stop wasting time and do things as soon as possible.

No extra pit-stops on the way back to your place. No inviting extra people if you don’t have to. No extra routines or lines if she’s already giving you indicators of interest. Learn to keep your mouth shut. Don’t give her more than what she asks for. And don’t make unnecessary enemies.